We Vowed Till Death Do Us Part. Nobody Vowed To Show Bank Statements.

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • July 12, 2026
  • 3 min read

Marriage in Ghana is a public ceremony and a private financial mystery. It is time we stopped hiding our money from the people we claim to love.

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We Killed Kokooko And Called It Freedom

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • July 5, 2026
  • 4 min read

Our grandparents had kokooko, family witnesses, and real accountability before a relationship began. We traded all of that for secrecy and called it freedom. A plain word to young Ghanaians about naming your relationship to someone who can ask the hard questions.

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The Secret Account Will Cost You More Than Money

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • June 28, 2026
  • 3 min read

Let me tell you something many couples will not say out loud. There is a secret bank account hiding in plenty marriages in this country. A husband who hides his bonus. A wife who keeps a susu her husband knows nothing about. A side account at a different bank, opened quietly, fed quietly, guarded like […]

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Silence Is Killing Your Marriage

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • June 21, 2026
  • 3 min read

Most marriages do not die from shouting. They die from silence. Let me say it plainly. The couple that fights loudly often has more hope than the couple that has stopped talking. Noise means there is still something to fight for. Silence means somebody has given up. I have watched this happen too many times. […]

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Exploring the Negative Effects of Single Motherhood on Son’s Marriage

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • August 27, 2023
  • 3 min read

Introduction Single motherhood can bring about unique challenges and, in some cases, unintentionally contribute to negative effects on a son’s future marriage. While single mothers play an important role in raising their children, it’s crucial to acknowledge the potential hurdles that may arise. In this article, we delve into the negative effects of single motherhood […]

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Unmasking the Caricature Marriage: Navigating Unrealistic Expectations

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • August 9, 2023
  • 3 min read

Introduction Marriage is often portrayed as a beautiful union of love and companionship. However, there are times when the realities of married life deviate from these idealised notions and manifest as a caricature of marriage. A caricature marriage is marked by exaggerated roles, unattainable expectations, and a distorted sense of partnership. In this article, we […]

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How do you Honour your Mother and Father?

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • July 10, 2023
  • 3 min read

Honouring one’s mother and father is a concept emphasised in several passages of the Bible, particularly in the Ten Commandments. The specific instructions for honouring parents can be found in Exodus 20:12 and Deuteronomy 5:16: Exodus 20:12 (New International Version): “Honour your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land […]

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Six (6) Repairs for Marriage

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • March 24, 2022
  • 3 min read

Every marriage goes through some accidents which may require some repairs to be done. These repairs are essential to keep the marriage alive. We cannot ignore these repairs which are supposed to be a continuous thing and make the marriage work. Now, let’s talk about the six (6) repairs for marriages. Be Ready to Apologise […]

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Children are Gifts

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • December 31, 2021
  • 2 min read

Children are gifts from God. I see children as gifts God has promised to give His children. When someone promises you a gift, you do not get angry when the gift is not yet in your hands. Especially, when you know that the one who has promised has never failed in His promise before. God […]

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Money in Relationships

  • Emmanuel Kusi Achampong
  • November 22, 2021
  • 2 min read

Relationships thrive on some important ingredients. These ingredients are essential to make the relationship survive the test of time. Some of these ingredients include love, faithfulness, MONEY, empathy, forgiveness, responsibility, and others. Without money, all the other ingredients may survive but will struggle. The issue of money in relationships is important. Money can purchase some […]

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