I want to challenge something we often get wrong about family and marriage. We either give our families too much power, or we dismiss them entirely. Both extremes will cost you. Let me start with a story from scripture. When Abraham wanted a wife for his son Isaac, he did not leave Isaac to figure […]
Stop marrying someone based on who you think they will become. I have said this to young people in counselling sessions more times than I can count. You fall in love with the idea of a person. You see a glimpse of their potential. And you convince yourself that with your love, your patience, and […]
I have watched too many people walk down the aisle with the wrong person. Not because they were foolish. But because they were afraid. Afraid of what people would say. Afraid of turning thirty and still being single. Afraid of their mother’s voice in their head asking, “When are you bringing someone home?” So they […]
The reasons for the collapse of marriages within the Christian community, as with marriages in any other group, are complex and multifaceted. It’s important to recognise that not all Christian marriages are collapsing, and there are many thriving and successful marriages within the Christian community as well. That being said, there are several factors that […]
Attitude is everything. It is the driving force behind the success or failure of an individual. Attitude is not just a state of mind but an expression of the values and beliefs that shape our behaviour. Our attitude determines our perception of the world, and it can either hold us back or propel us towards […]
At the beginning of the year, most people plan to change and form new habits to transform their lives. But these decisions fail because of the long-term benefits or otherwise of these habits. When we decide to make the change and the new habit more enjoyable now. When we enjoy some of the benefits attached […]
The world talks about climate change and many countries have started working toward doing something to reduce the speed of climate change. The United Nations and its agencies make it look like the only way to sustain the world is through the reduction or elimination of activities that affect climate change. The argument of some […]
