She loved me and I knew it. She was ready to do anything for me. She was willing to even have sex with me if I had requested. As for intense hugging, it was becoming normal. Any thought of going to visit her brought excitement. The thought that this beautiful lady loved me that much was exhilarating. It was dangerous being with her alone in a room or in a car. This is because the level of resistance was low when it came to any attempt to touch and to hold.
The feeling that a gentleman you admired and liked proposed to you is great. You are on cloud nine just because he said the words you have been expecting. You had already fallen for him before he even proposed. Love in relationships is important in the beginning. But this is the time to be careful not to throw your pearl to the wrong or right gentleman.
It is normal today to have sex in relationships without any worries. I meet this gentleman today and we have sex the next day or even the same day. This is seen as normal in the eyes of the world. This is also becoming normal in the church. There have been situations where supposed men in cassock have advised that would-be couples have sex to confirm their readiness for the marriage.
I am not here to tell you about the dangers of premarital sex. Indeed, sex is fun and interesting. It is the highest form of showing love to the one who has qualified himself or herself for that. Sex has also sent many to the psychiatry zone because the other party assumed that by having sex with the significant other, it was evidence of strong love between the two. Meanwhile, the other person was just having fun and nowhere near love for him or her.
How are you sure that having sex with that person is a confirmation of love between the two of you. Some people will push you to prove the love you have for them by having sex with them. Some others have demanded sex as a prove of forgiveness. Some were just overwhelmed with emotions because they were not wise enough. Others were just having fun. They wanted to satisfy their libido and you were the object in sight.
The fact that you had sex does not necessarily mean that the relationship will not work either the opposite. But premarital sex may be a catalyst for mistrust in the relationship. Mistrust can lead to several other issues in the relationship. Some issues in marriages are not just incompatibility matters but may go way back to the foundation for that relationship. What you do at the beginning of the relationship is important. When you start with sex when no real commitment exists, you are building your relationship in the sand. When the storms of life hit the relationship, it will begin to fall because the foundation was a weak one.
Did you have sex before marriage? Are you having sex in your current relationship? Answer the question to yourself.
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