I was young and wanted to explore. I was told to monitor and claim him by force. He was charming and wanted by many ladies. So the day he proposed to me, I was excited and wanted to do everything possible to keep him. It did not matter the extend to go to keep him for me alone. That was the beginning of my sorrows.
I thought by sleeping with him, I would get him to be by my side forever. So when he had not even requested for that service, I was making arrangements to provide it. He was not the typical gentleman who will not spare you “when you bring yourself”. He was just a correct gentleman who would not have sex with a lady just like that. He was more interested in the long term and how to make the relationship grow and become better. He shunned away from all the sexual opportunities I provided. I sometimes planned accidental exposures to lure him. I thought by doing that I will get him to myself forever.
After enduring so much sexual affliction from me for several months, he decided to sit me down to address the issue with me. He was blunt with me. He said that it is not that he is “not a man”. I am a man who can fire, he was emphatic. But I have decided to honour ladies who become my friends by refusing to have sex with them. I have proposed to you, we just started the process of getting to know ourselves and you want us to have sex? Do you want to force me to have sex with you? That will not happen. I am a man of integrity and will not compromise on that.
Today’s youth have thrown caution to the wind when it comes to chastity. Chastity is now a thing of the past. Men and women in white have decided to soil that garment with dirty oil. They have decided to disregard the advice their fathers gave them and are now listening to the advice of strangers. It seems to them that the father’s counsel is outmoded and archaic.
You have refused to keep your pants up. You think that by keeping your pants down and giving access to your palace to whosoever will, you would be able to keep and maintain a man. But look at your state now, was it worth it? You ignored time tested advice and chose your own path, this path is leading you to the wrong location but your pride is preventing you from seeing the light. Let the light shine on you.
Many children have obeyed the counsel of their fathers and have become a success. They listened and followed the advice and they have become the standard for others to follow.
You have gone that far, but you can still retrace your steps. You can seek to obey the father’s advice and be safe or ignore it and be … The word to the wise is enough. God bless you.
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