I was told not to have premarital sex, I obliged. I obeyed all the religious advise from my spiritual fathers and mothers. I obeyed God by fleeing youthful lust and staying pure till marriage. Expectations were high during and after my wedding. The gentleman was a leading prayer warrior in the church. But he was and is a gay. I only got to know three (3) months after our wedding. What should I do?
Some wives have found themselves in this situation and they are confused as to what to do. They are told God hate divorce and yes indeed God hate divorce in the same way as He hate lying. In this particular case, the woman found herself married to a secret gay who was spiritually popular in their church. She is now married, what can she do? Should she continue married to this guy or leave him?
As a non-religious person, this may look simple and straightforward. The lady should just quit. To the very spiritual (religious) person, it is complex and complicated. Can you help this lady with any advice?
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*that will let the husband come to his self being
I think the woman should involve her husband in prayers and more over she should speak to the husband to let him know of the harm at least that will let the human came to his self being
Spiritually, the lady must pray for her husband, that God touches him and turn him into the man she desires and a man after God’s heart.
The lady must engage her husband to seek counseling. Maybe she’s thinking he’s gay based on some signs and counseling may prove this wrong. If it is through that he is indeed gay, there are therapies to reorient sexual orientations.
The third step would be that the lady inform the church leaders after the first two steps fail to work.
Should all these three steps produce no results, and she feels this can in some way hinder her salvation, then she can move on with the divorce option.